It’s OK If You Forget Me Song by Astrid S
Ketika mendengarkan lagu ini, hal yang pertama terfikirkan.. jika memang cinta maka kenapa meninggalkan? Apa rasa cinta aja tidak cukup mempertahankan suatu hubungan ..? Apa perbedaan tidak bisa dicari solusi dengan duduk bersama ? Apa komitmen bersama sudah tak menjadi berarti? Seribu saru pertanyaan dikepalaku tentang suatu hubungan percintaan.
Lalu.. kudengarkan dengan seksama lagu ini. Isinya tentang seseorang menerima kenyataan realita hidup dengan ikhlas bahwa hubungan percintaan sudah berakhir, yang terpenting adalah sudah berusaha mempertahankan dan berusaha terbaik.
Inti dari cinta itu dapat saling menerima kelebihan dan kekurangan, dalam hal menerima itu perlu adanya proses adaptasi dan toleransi. Setiap huhungan pasti akan ada konflik, dan ketika terjadi konflik seharusnya bukan saling meninggalkan tapi duduk bersama mencari jalan tengahnya.
Untukku.. mempunyai prinsip bahwa harus bisa mempertahankan suatu hubungan dengan cara komunikasi, tetapi jika pihak lain itu menutup pintu tidak mau komunikasi maka apa yang bisa dilakukan ? Istilahnya kena GOSHTING, alasan dapat apa saja.. alasan sakit.. alasan sibuk intinya tiba2 tanpa sebab musabab tidak bisa berkomunikasi lagi. Akhirnya cuma ada satu cara terbaik menurutku.. yaitu merelakan dengan ikhlas. Seperti judul lagu ini.. It's okay if you forget me.
Proses Cinta itu luar biasa.. Diriku selalu menikmati proses jatuh cinta. Mulai proses pendekatan, proses crazy in love, proses adaptasi, sampai akhirnya proses mempertahankan agar hubungan ini berjalan dan akhirnya proses patah hati. Siklus itu seperti pola berulang. Sejujurnya melelahkan jiwa raga.
Satu kata dalam menjalani proses ini yaitu HARUS IKHLAS. Sehingga ketika semuanya berakhir akan dapat tetap tersenyum dan yakin inilah kejadian terbaik dalam hidup ini.
Lyrics
It’s OK If You Forget Me
Song by Astrid S :
… Two weeks and I wait 'til the feeling hits
Maybe I just haven't let it sink in
For three years, we were living together
Held me like you'd hold me forever
Didn't think that heartbreak would feel like this
… From everything to nothing at all
From every day to never at all
And everyone says that I should be sad
Is it normal that
… I don't feel sorry for myself
Care if your hands touch somebody else
Wouldn't get jealous if you're happy
It's okay if you forget me
I don't feel empty now that you're gone
Does that mean it didn't mean nothing at all?
But I'll tell you what the worst is
It's the way it doesn't hurt
When I wish it did
… Patience is the thing that I learned from you
That some things can feel wrong even though they're true
Went through all the hard times together
Kept me calm when I'd lose my temper
I'm just really grateful that I had you
… From everything to nothing at all
Every day to never at all
And everyone says that I should be sad
Is it normal that
… I don't feel sorry for myself
Care if your hands touch somebody else
Wouldn't get jealous if you're happy
It's okay if you forget me
I don't feel empty now that you're gone
Does that mean it didn't mean nothing at all?
And I'll tell you what the worst is
It's the way it doesn't hurt
When I wish it did
I wish it did
Mm
When I wish it did
… From everything to nothing at all
From every day to never at all
And everyone says that I should be sad
Is it normal that
… I don't feel sorry for myself
Care if your hands touch somebody else
Wouldn't get jealous if you're happy
It's okay if you forget me
I don't feel empty now that you're gone
Does that mean it didn't mean nothing at all?
And I'll tell you what the worst is
It's the way it doesn't hurt
When I wish it did
I wish it did
Mm
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